Yahoo Finance American dream in Mexico: This Houston woman, 48, says she's living a better life south of the border — despite making 'significantly less money' than in the US
After nearly 20 years, Adalia Aborisade quit her teaching job in Houston — where she made about $60,000 annually — to move to Mexico City. Now, she makes about $38,000 a year.
Despite the lower income, Aborisade, 48, says she’s living the American dream, only it’s outside the U.S.
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“I make significantly less money than I did living in the U.S., but I work fewer hours, I am less stressed and overall my life is just filled with much more positivity and joy,” she told CNBC’s Make It.
Aborisade says as a teacher she used to work at least 60 hours a week and was “cratering under the weight of all of the expectations on me.”
In 2020, she decided to call Mexico City her permanent home. Now, she works about 15 hours a week and runs her own business, Picky Girl Travels the World, where she offers individualized financial coaching, relocation assistance and retreats. Her days are filled with exploring the city, visiting museums, trying new cafes and, of course, eating tacos.
What’s changed most for Aborisade is how she thinks about work and leisure.
“Things are just a lot more laid back than in the U.S.,” she said. “I am no longer in a rush to do anything.”
Living large on a lower income
While she doesn’t earn as much money now, Aborisade has more disposable income. She pays $750 a month in rent for a two-bedroom apartment and about $500 for food (eating out frequently). She can even afford a house cleaner who visits weekly, at around $117 a month.
Aborisade also has private health insurance, which costs about $1,800 a year.
“I can at least afford to go to the doctor here or the dentist. Those things are within my reach, where they weren’t before, even with medical insurance,” she said.
On Aborisade’s average monthly salary of $3,170, she still has about $1,000 left over for discretionary spending — and saving is no longer a priority. She has a nest egg of more than $545,000 in an individual retirement account and says she’s already achieved Coast FIRE (financial independence, retire early) status, which refers to having enough savings and investments to coast into retirement.
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In search of a better quality of life
The Association of Americans Resident Overseas (AARO) estimates that at least 5.4 million Americans live abroad, as of 2023.
A poll conducted by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago in October 2023 found that only 36% of respondents believe the American dream — the idea that if you work hard, you’ll get ahead — still holds true. Half of respondents (50%) say life in America today is “worse” than it was 50 years ago.
Mortgage rates continue to rise amid a shortage of affordable housing. And many Americans are mired in debt, from student loans to credit card debt.
Moving abroad comes with challenges — such as conflicting tax systems and onerous reporting, according to the AARO — but for some Americans, it’s worth it. The Great Resignation of 2020 saw people start to reevaluate their careers, with some deciding to move abroad and work remotely from countries where their dollar could stretch much further.
Some countries now offer visas for digital nomads, along with more traditional options like work visas. But the top destination? According to legal tech firm Lexidy, it’s Mexico, with almost 800,000 American expats currently residing there.
Clearly, Aborisade isn’t alone in her decision to move to Mexico.
“My dream life is almost the antithesis of what we consider to be the dream life in America,” she said. “I do not own a lot of stuff. I make a point not to. It’s not about accumulating wealth. It’s about having control over my time. That is my dream life.”
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