Hollywood actor Ray Winstone has highlighted the importance of men being tested for prostate cancer as he discusses the need to talk about the disease in a film with two close friends.
His latest film, The Sit Down, sees him discuss male friendship and support with city trader Gary Pettit and former chief executive of Charlton Athletic FC Peter Varney, who have both been treated for and recovered from prostate cancer.
The three men made the film as part of Prostate Cancer UK’s “Men, we are with you” campaign, to help raise the profile of the disease to men like them.
#TheSitDown, a feel-good film about a Hollywood star, a city trader and a football consultant who won't be held back by prostate cancer, is here.
— Prostate Cancer UK (@ProstateUK) September 28, 2021
In the film, the star of Sexy Beast describes how he met Mr Pettit at a West Ham match and they “just hit it off”, while he has known Mr Varney for about 15 years.
Mr Pettit, who has a family history of cancer, was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the age of 43 and had his prostate removed in 2013. Mr Varney was diagnosed with the illness in 2017.
Mr Winstone said the experiences of his two friends had made him more aware of the need for testing.
Speaking to the two men in the film, he said: “Through knowing you, I actually have a test every year now, a blood test, I haven’t had the other one yet, but the blood test comes back all right and then that’s fine to keep an eye on it, but it seems you have to catch it early.”
He added: “Purely through Gary, what happened to Gary, is that I have a full medical every year, and it ain’t just for me, it’s for my family as well and my kids.
“Because I want to see them grow up, I want to see my grandchildren grow up, and I ain’t finished yet, I’ve got a lot of things I want to do, hopefully I’ll get some of them done.”
The men discuss how difficult people find it to talk about prostate cancer with their friends and family, and how important it is to support those who have been diagnosed with the disease.
Mr Pettit said: “I think a big part for me is the talking about it, because there’s still all the stigma around it, no-one wants to say nothing.”
Mr Varney added: “There’s people you don’t expect to show concern and there’s people that come out of the woodwork and you think ‘how nice was that?’.
“Ex-players at Charlton that sent me little videos taken in the garden, they didn’t have to do that, but closer friends couldn’t even be bothered to send a text.”
The former Charlton chief executive said men are “particularly bad” at talking about such topics and blamed it on the “stiff upper lip and all that”.
Mr Winstone said: “We don’t talk about it, it’s to do with privacy and all that.”
He added: “I think it’s getting better, I think we’re getting a little bit, we’re sitting here now talking about it.”
Mr Winstone and Mr Pettit founded the sports player agency Integral Sports Management, and run the business together, with Mr Varney as chairman.
They talk about the importance of their friendship in the film.
Mr Winstone said: “If I lost one of them and I lost Gary or even Peter now, it would leave a hole, it would leave a big hole.”
Angela Culhane, chief executive of Prostate Cancer UK, said: “Our mantra is ‘Men, we are with you’ and this fantastic film perfectly illustrates that, via the power of friendship in the fight against prostate cancer.”
Watch The Sit Down at https://prostatecanceruk.org/thesitdown.