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First Nations in central B.C. have spent three days hosting a special ceremony for healing after the remains of an estimated 215 children were found in late May on the grounds of the former Kamloops residential school.
The Nadleh Whut'en First Nation and Stellat'en First Nation along with Carrier Sekani Family Services (CSFS) held the event, called Wiping of the Tears Healing Ceremony, at the site of a former residential school in Lejac, about 150 kilometres west of Prince George.
"We hold up the Tk'emlúps te Secwépemc during this sorrowful time," said Mary Teegee, the executive director of CSFS in a release.
"Our healing journey is made lighter by being united in heart and spirit; our show of support through the sacred fire reminds us that we are all bound together. Our role now is to be the voice of those long silenced, to fight the good fight and to honour those we have lost by taking care of those who are still here."
In late May the Tk'emlúps te Secwépemc First Nation said preliminary findings from a survey of the grounds at the former Kamloops Indian Residential School uncovered what it believes to be the remains of 215 children.
The revelation created a national outpouring of outrage, sympathy and reflection about Canada's residential school system, which operated as part of an assimilation effort imposed on Indigenous peoples to destroy their cultures and suppress their language.
Many impromptu memorials were set up around the country that featured shoes to represent the children discovered at the school and victims of Canada's residential school system.
In Prince George, the Lheidli T'enneh First Nation asked for the memorial there to be turned into a permanent monument.
In Lejac over the weekend, the ceremony was open to the public and featured four sacred fire pits to accommodate physical distancing requirements due to the pandemic.
A memorial wall was erected for survivors, family members of survivors, and others to post messages or images. At the end of the three-day ceremony all of the notes and pictures are to be burned.
'Finding my voice'
Emma Williams said the ceremony was an important part of moving toward reconciliation. Williams was forced to attend Immaculata Elementary School in Burns Lake, B.C., which was operated by the same Catholic diocese that ran Lejac.
"This means a lot of healing for us," she said. "To come together and heal our pain because we've hidden our pain for so many years, hardly anyone wants to talk about it. I don't know what the reason is, maybe its too painful. It was for me, for me it was really painful, but now I'm finding my voice."
The memorial also featured donations of new shoes, which following the ceremony are to be donated to First Nations children.
The ceremony also had traditional healers and workers to support the mental health of attendees.
"The legacy of the residential schools continues to have negative impacts on the health and well-being of many Indigenous people," said Chief Corrina Leween of the Cheslatta Carrier Nation and president of Carrier Sekani Family Services.
The Lejac Residential School made national headlines in the late 1930s when four boys — two aged seven, and an eight- and nine-year-old — were found dead, their bodies frozen while trying to cross Fraser Lake in northern B.C. after running away. The school remained open until 1976.
Watch | Lejac residential school survivors gather for healing ceremony in central B.C.
Support is available for anyone affected by the lingering effects of residential schools, and those who are triggered by the latest reports.
A national Indian Residential School Crisis Line has been set up to provide support for former students and those affected. People can access emotional and crisis referral services by calling the 24-hour national crisis line: 1-866-925-4419.